Travelling ...

We have been on a little getaway ... 5 days, 4 nights ... long distance driving, ferry travel, city driving ... all of which does not make for a relaxing trip. Add to that, the travel intention and destination was not hot hotel sex at a swank hotel in sunny climes with a pool to lay beside, an umbrella adorned adult beverage in hand (we will have that holiday one day!). It was for a medical appointment and visits with family and friends, old and new. 

We got off to a not so good start ... we'd had a spat the night before our departure for which I'd apologized at the time but I quickly found out as we set out, the episode had kept Frank awake most of the night; he had not spanked in the moment because he was angry ... and he had no time to adminster a morning spanking as there was a ferry to catch. Consequently we began with a long but good 'car talk' - I love our car talks ... and this one was no exception. I am still amazed how much easier ttwd makes the communication process ... and there is no getting away from it (especially in a car) ... it is one of our 'rules' that we both be frank and honest with our feelings ... no hiding. I get spanked for hiding and not talking!

The highlight of the trip was a special afternoon spent with a special ttwd friend. I was slightly nervous in the lead up to our get together - what if we couldn't find something to talk about (duh!) ... what if we didn't 'click' ... however, within minutes, after hugs and hellos, we were off in a corner, busily chatting like old friends - friends that could talk ttwd face to face - now that's an amazing feeling! Thank-you, my friend, for making the visit possible!

The lowlight of the trip ... I think my submissive self missed the boat, ferry boat that is :>)) ... it has been almost eleven years since we lived in the city. Old habits die hard ... there were several hand on knee moments as we were driving. Which in answer to, I would tell Frank I was only 'navigating' (in the old days I was a city driver due to my career ... he was a 'burbs driver due to his, so I still think that makes me the better driver ... haha!) ... however, in retrospect, a true navigator might have toned it down a bit :>)) 

Add to the driving (which we had to do a lot of!), we were sleeping here and there - at 2 different hotels plus staying with friends. I found I missed our morning and bedtime DD rituals and routines ... they calm me and help me keep my head in the game. And of course, there was no spanking to be had. I knew Frank was watching and listening ... and was not at all happy with my headspace. 

At breakfast this morning, he asked how I was doing to which I replied I was doing ok ...

Then he paused ....

... "you know you are getting a spanking when we get home"  

A 'gulp' and guilty eyes were the only answer from me ... while my inside voice said "yeahhh ... kind of expecting that would be the case"

We are now heading home ... ferry travel requires waiting so I am filling the time writing this post. However, my mind has raced ahead of me ... and is already home to my delinquent,  submissive self, waiting for my spanky man to arrive and looking forward to my own comfy bed!

Thanks for dropping by .... nj