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Saturday 15 June 2019

Theatre Sports ...



We were recently off on our annual anniversary getaway. It is something we’ve made an effort to do every year since our kids were little. Then it was a much needed respite. Today we are retired but we still have everyday life obligations at home so the intent of the annual event hasn’t changed. It was, and still is, a time for us to focus on each other without day to day life getting in the way. 

The amount of luggage we had with us this year was truly embarrassing … I always overpack as I pack for ‘possibilities and choice’ not for what I need to wear each day. Add to that, sex is a very important part of our annual excursion so that has to be taken into consideration as well. We have a ‘toy bag’ - our collection has grown over the years so it now requires a small rolling suitcase. Also, appropriate sexy clothing and lingerie is a must. There was also another consideration for this years packing … role play … 

We have always had lingerie and cosplay type attire in our sex life. Frank, like most men, is a visual creature … when it comes to sex, he, more often than not, likes to see me attired according to his whim of the moment. Role play isn’t something I’ve been comfortable with in the past as acting has never been my forte. Dressing up I can do … acting a part … not so much. However, with a little help from reading other blogs in the blogging community, Frank was able to convince me to give it a try and whaddaya know … it soon became evident Frank was more than capable of carrying the acting load and I just had to be present and accounted for to make the appropriate responses to his lead … and turns out … that I could do ...  lol! 

In the lead up to our getaway, the role play situation got to the point where I was tempted to suggest to Frank that we not have any sex during the couple of weeks prior to our departure … the cast of characters he was bringing into the picture seemed to grow with every episode and the stage was starting to get a little crowded :>)). Although he certainly turned out to be a great casting director, I’d never call him a script writer. Frank’s approach to role play is more like theatre sports.  Even in our non role play scene activities, I don’t think he plans much. When I asked him once before, after a particularly spectacular session, if it was a planned scene … his response was .... “did you have a good time” … to which I responded … “hell yes!” … and he finished with … “well then, that’s all that matters” … discussion closed ...

All of which means our designated overarching roles in this new role play adventure has him as the casting director/lead actor and me as the costume and prop designer and supporting cast :>)). 

So yes, I also needed to plan and pack for all the potential role play parts … yet another suitcase. We only had 5 nights away so I was pretty sure not all characters would make it onto the stage but again … with no firm plan I had to plan for all … which included … 

  • Pepper … age undetermined but a youngish preppy girl
  • The Professor … stern taskmaster
  • Dr C … kinky physician
  • Nurse Betty - Dr C’s assistant (I’ve told Frank he needs to come up with a new name. I have an Aunt Betty so just saying the name does me in - not helpful when trying to get into character :>)) 
  • The Store Detective and his thievery counterpart, Rosie, the underwear shoplifter … one really does have to give the man props for ingenuity!

Yes, the luggage situation was a bit ridiculous :>))

I am sure some of you would love me to spill details of how our role play episodes unfolded but I will save those tales for another day. I can say that I, Nora, was also along for the ride with the rest of the cast so I also packed a special new outfit for ‘me’ … pleather, high waisted leggings topped with my red and black corset … my newly blonde streaked long hair worn down. This is how I dressed for our first evening in … and our last. Turns out it was Frank’s favourite outfit of the vacation …  and when he said with a dark appreciative look and a small smile as I came out of the bedroom … “You feel sexy, don’t you?”, he was right. I did feel attractive ... and comfortable in my own skin ... and how we interacted with one another when I was me and he was him, emphasized to me, that although role play is a fun activity to put a little sizzle in our adventures, when we’re ourselves, Dominant man and submissive woman, is when all the best play begins and ends.

.... thanks for dropping by ... nj

18 comments:

  1. Hi NJ,

    Wow, sounds like you had a wonderful vacation. Maybe a bit crowded with the long list of characters lol. Love your list of characters!

    Role play is fun to add a bit of spice, but I love your final sentence.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz ... We did have a good time. Even tho' it sounds like it, it wasn't all about the sex ... lol! ... we did some touristy things, ate good food and just generally enjoyed each others company ... nj ... xx

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  2. I love this nj. I particularly like the fact that you are both so comfortable with one another and with your relationship that you are able to explore in this way. I am glad that it all worked out and hope that you will spill more of the details of some of the Oscar winning performances at some point as I would really like a back stage pass. missy x

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    1. It's been fun exploring other sides of ourselves, Missy ... there were a couple of memorable moments I might share at a later date ... if so I'll see that you get a backstage pass ;) ... nj ... xx

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  3. NJ, I surely have to give it to you and Frank. You take hotel sex to a whole new level. I kept visualizing one of those mobile wardrobe racks with the director calling, "Costume Change!" Then Little Bo Peep comes out holding her staff or Nurse Nancy in a starched white uniform and cap.

    Considering I used to act in community theater and was used to wardrobe changes, I have never had a desire for more than lingerie. Guess if Sam ordered me to, then there might be that thrill I feel way down under.

    Glad you had a good trip, my friend.

    Hugs From Little Red Riding Hood

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    1. Ella! ... you know Frank reads here ... don't be giving him any more ideas. Before you know it, I'll be having to source a wolf costume and a red cape ... lol! ... but thank you, we did have a great time .. nj ... xx

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  4. Nora Jean!

    I believe Eric and I have the same roller bag in our closet. As a matter of fact, when he first got home and we went off to the beach, we brought all of our alter egos as well. How fun! Right? We have a blast being silly and just having fun with each other, costumes, different personalities. One of our favorite things to do is meet up in a hotel bar, like we don't know each other at all. Eric will have the bar tender send me a drink. I might reject it. I might accept it. Either way, by the end of the night, the entire bar is watching our back-and-forth flirting and most, okay ALL times, he ends up taking me back to his room. LOL. Glad you had a sweet getaway and no worries about all the extra luggage. After all, each character deserves his/her own suitcase. You're just keeping costs down by only needing to plane tickets. ;0
    Amy

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    1. Wow, Amy! ... you two take it to a whole different level with your hotel bar gig ... lol! ... would love to be a fly on the bar wall and see that one go down. Happy to hear you are both settled back in with each other ... nj ... xx

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  5. Wonderful that you have a vacation from the routine of being retired. Time to try and amp up having more vacations from retirement.
    looking forward to reading your role play adventures, and yes, just the dom/sub is even better when not just role playing. I hope you were spanked a few times.
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. No vacation spanking, Red :>(( ... Frank won't spank if there is a wall between us and others ... especially after our last year's getaway adventure where we had to listen to the goings of others on the other side wall :>)) However he made up for lost time when we got home ... lol! ... nj

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  6. Now, that sounds like a great vacation!

    Thanks for sharing!
    Boo

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    1. It was, Boo! ... thanks for reading and dropping by ... nj

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  7. Sweet and hot - a perfect combo. Sounds like good times all around. <3

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    1. We did have a good time, Olivia ... can't think of a year when we didn't :>) ... nj ... xx

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  8. Love all the characters that you have and the way you play. It's all about having fun and it seems that you do, would love to hear some details lol.

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    1. Hi PS/lg ... just so you know, your role playing exploits have been some of our inspiration ... you two get very creative :>)) ... yes, maybe one day I will spill details :>) ... nj

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  9. That sounds like some hot role playing, NJ! Love your sentence about Dominance and submission.
    Rosie xx

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    1. Hi Rosie ... yes, it was a good time ... another year, another new milestone in more ways than one :>) ... nj ... xx

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