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Saturday 17 March 2018

Mr Lingerie

I have mentioned in a previous post that Frank puts out the underwear he wants me to wear every day .... Well, I am here to tell you his obsession with all things frilly and lacy is a little more extensive than just choosing daily underwear. Frank has a lingerie fetish ... (and no ... I don't mean he's wearing my underwear ;)). I swear, if he had the budget and I had the closet space, we could open a fancy panties, etc, store of our own! He tells me he loves seeing me in lingerie because he's a visual kind of guy and the reason he picks out my underwear everyday is he likes to know in his head what I'm wearing underneath. 


One of the first signs of his obsession was very early in our relationship ... our first Christmas together. We weren't married yet but his parents and some of his siblings and families had recently moved to another city and my family went away for Christmas so we only had each other which meant I stayed at his apartment. I can't remember if we hung stockings or not but what I do remember, is waking up Christmas morning to half a dozen fancy, frilly bikini undies hanging in plain sight in the open closet ... like clothes on a line. Nothing ever embarrasses him ... It still makes me smile today, imagining him on his Christmas shopping spree, tromping through the department store lingerie section, picking out his favourites. 


A second memorable lingerie moment for him came about with my attendance, in the early 80's, at a then all the rage, home sales party (think Tupperware but with products more like what PK's Cassie found at the adult toy store). The products included lingerie and I bought a cute little black and purple corset with garters and stockings and a pair of long lacy gloves, which I surprised him by wearing at our annual anniversary hotel getaway. There were many more corsets and other exotic panties, teddies, garters and stockings etc, purchased over the years by me or him, but he will still tell me today, this one remains a favourite memory.


Fast forward to now ... I shop online for my underwear ... I'm not an off the rack kinda bra size and besides there aren't a lot of shopping choices where we live ... one is the W store, the one the Waltons own. The other is the Canadian chain store that sells a lot of men's work clothes. If you shop online you will know that the online stores will often send follow up sales emails. Guess who peruses these lingerie company emails when they arrive? ... pssst ... it's not me. From these, Frank often has suggestions as to what my next lingerie purchase should be and bless his heart, I often have to remind him to check the size limits of whatever has caught his eye, because his rose coloured, Man in Love, glasses have me in a way smaller size than I actually am. 


One of the first things he asked me to buy post our decision to go down the ttwd/DD road (besides the ouchy ping pong paddle) were what he called 'spanking panties' ... specifically he asked for boy shorts (the man knows his underwear!) ... the ones that don't quite cover your bum cheeks. Luckily the W store carries these (and pp paddles) so it was a one stop shop and no waiting for delivery. 


Pause here ... If you haven't noticed by now, I'm not an immediate 'get to the point' writer (or talker, for that matter :>)) ... so if this has been a bit of a meander for you, thanks for sticking with me and I am now getting to said point ... 

We are, at ~7 weeks and counting, still in the slow and learning phase of ttwd ... spankings, generally, are of the every day JFF (just for fun) variety. The other morning, JFF was OTK (gotta love all the acronyms :)) ... him sitting up on the bed, me over a pillow on his lap. It was a slow leisurely start when all of a sudden, ratatatatatatat!! .. a rapid fire, two handed smacking burned my butt! I swear if he wasn't holding me down I would have levitated off the bed .... I think I shrieked but he on the other hand, chuckled as he then rubbed my bum, commenting "now that's the colour I was looking for ... a nice rosy red" ...followed by ... "go put on _____ and stand and face the wall unit (closest thing to a corner in our bedroom) ... I need a visual for my day."

.... in conclusion ... not only is Frank a lingerie freako but I think this man of mine is the biggest spanking fan in our duo ... and for that, I do love him so!


Thanks for dropping by ... here's hoping there is Spring in the air, wherever you are (or for the 'downunders' ... another favourite season of mine, Fall) ... nj ... xx


22 comments:

  1. Lovely post NoraJean. I love wearing boylegs as they are so comfortable and the lacy styles make my Bear happy too.
    Your morning JFF, OTK sounds delightful. Franks Hohiness is coming out now.
    It is Autumn here yet our weather is still weird. Hot one day a week then cold again. Nasty wild fires not too far from here at the moment. Hope we receive a decent rainfall soon. Enjoy your spring.
    Hugs Lindy xx

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    1. Yes Lindy ... Frank's HoH is out and about a lot these days ;)
      Weather seems to be weird all over these days. Fires are scary business to have to worry about. Stay safe ... nj ... xx

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  2. Hi Nora Jean, well it looks like Frank is embracing this lifestyle whole heartedly! Whole handedly too, :)
    love Jan, xx

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    1. Hi Jan ... I think he's starting to do a bit of experimentation ... so embracing, yes :) ... nj ... xx

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  3. Hi Nora Jean,

    I enjoyed reading this. Frank certainly knows his lingerie, I love it. Rick always enjoys the visual of pretty lingerie too.

    Sounds like Frank is embracing his role as HoH. "I need a visual for my day" made me giggle. a lovely start to the day :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. ... happy to hear you have a lingerie man as well, Roz ... After he read the post, Frank said ''there isn't a man alive that doesn't like lingerie' quote, unquote :)) ... nj .... xx

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  4. Frank is on it in more ways than one! You may be new to the lifestyle but the fact that he's so involved and on board will allow you to progress leaps and bounds.
    Amy

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    1. Thanks, Amy! ... we have had our ups and downs .. but heading into more up territory these days ... nj

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  5. Nora Jean,

    Welcome to my world. Jack loves the lingerie he takes down. It is really that simple. As for your entry into ttwd for the long haul, you two are really getting there in that slow, wonderful burn of a way that assures success, right? When we dress together, it is that very lingerie coupled with some sexy talk that leads to the spanking.
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Meredith ... I just knew your Jack was a lingerie man ... when I read your Pink Flannels and Bunny Slippers post and Jack asking you to dress so as to reveal a bit of sexy lingerie, I was nodding :))
      Slow and sure it is ... it's the very first thing we agreed to. And yes, the dressing up and down adds a bit of spice ... nj ... xx

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  6. Oh, your Frank is on his way. JFF is a great acronym, and he is enjoying himself, too. I loved this post, Nora Jean. It is just delicious that Frank chooses your underwear each day. That makes for lots of opportunities for spankings and play. I can hear the happiness in your writing, and I am so glad for you.

    Sam is also a corset man. I have one red corset that I bought for Valentine's Day one year. His fun spankings are JB ones for "Just Because."

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. We are happy, Ella .. this all has added a bit of excitement to our life.
      I do love corsets, no matter the colour ... they pull in and push out in all the right places :)) ... nj ... xx

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  7. I think lingerie is beautiful too. But it never looks the same on me as it does on the model. If it did I'd sure have more.

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    1. PK, your comment came in right around the time I was getting a bit of a 'talking to' about self image. Frank today had some online lingerie he wanted me to look at (see, I told you folks :)) ... Pointing to one item, he said 'that's cute' and my response was 'yeah, but it won't look like that on me' ... yikes, wrong words! I heard about how I needed to stop talking and thinking about myself in that way. ... so my theory of aging, PK, is we just have be brave and avoid mirrors ;)) ... nj

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  8. I love this..one reason being we are about the same age..when I first met M..I always wore what he called 'granny panties'...and I was not a grandma, yet. After a couple years, he took me shopping, and pointed out better choices..for bras and panties. It took me a bit, but now I love surprising him with a new 'little thing'...and it does make me feel sexier and more appealing...and it does help when his eyes light up and he gets that silly grin.
    hugs abby

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    1. Another lingerie man ... the twinkle and the grin say it all ;))
      Yes, I do feel sexier in lingerie, as well ... and part of the appeal is how it makes Frank feel and respond. However, see my reply to PK .. I don't really like looking at myself in a mirror ... just a bit too real :) ... nj ... xx

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  9. Lingerie is definitely eye candy to men. Ray loves sexy lingerie and I always tell him it's because he doesn't have to wear it. I think all (or at least most) men have those rose colored glasses - God love them.

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    1. Yes, thank goodness for the RC glasses ... they love us ... all of us, no matter shape, form or age :>))
      nj

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  10. Harry loves corsets, I think most men do! It sounds as though Frank is enjoying his new role, so glad you are having fun whilst finding your way.
    Rosie xx

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    1. Hi Rosie ... yes, Frank is enjoying our fledgling ttwd life.
      I think from the responses here, Frank is right ... all men love lingerie :>)) ... nj ... xx

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  11. very fun. my hubbie is a fan of stockings and garters...I might have to dish them out sometime... :-) glad you are both having such fun.

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    1. I'm guessing you'd be making your hubbie a happy man :>)
      and yes, we are enjoying life these days ... nj

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